Who should love you the most after #infidelity
It’s been five and a half years since I found proof my husband was having an affair with a married colleague. I am about to become a grandmother and I have never felt more in charge of my life than today. I wanted to share that learning to love myself above my husband and anyone else in my close family circle, has been the most empowering experience ever. I have explained how I was born afraid of not being loved by my parents and I became a people pleaser. Then I became the perfect wife so that my husband would keep loving me pass parenting and career development. In the process, I lost myself and found it again after burning out to the claim that women could have it all. I decided to enjoy just being a wife and a mum but failed to defend my need for sharing my intellect with the world in a way that would be acknowledged by my surrounding environment. The globosphere wasn’t a means to the end that I was craving for, feeling the energy from the admiration of those around me. This may
