Love is the ultimate reward

There’s the aha moment when You realize that your whole life is indeed the healing your female ancestors needed from all the oppression and the suffering they endured.

You had to leave the classist system and you have done so. You liberated yourself from the stigma of ancestors conceived out of Marriage in a complex and unforgiving prejudiced and hypocritical moral rigid structure. 

Your own parents were divided by this even when your grandparents did their best to repair the damage. Yet it was not enough. You deserved to be valued for who you are regardless of who they were. And yet you are shaped by both. 

In assuming a different culture you lift the burden of societal stigma off your shoulders and you enrich your own experiences. 

Today you wonder how two different backgrounds could come together and stay together and make each other happy. At least you know that on your side, you have been given the freedom that would have been unfathomable have you stayed in your limited class compartment. 

The lack of appreciation of wounded parents drove you to walk away In Search of a more fulfilling life. They didn’t give you enough for you to stay empowered within the intricate levels of the social pyramid. Fortunately, they gave you what you needed to break free. You have now freed yourself and all of your female ancestors. Your daughter and granddaughters have been healed and can stand on their own two feet. You are not afraid of not being loved anymore. You have understood where the secret lays. You go, girl!